Tell me whom you frequent, and I will tell you who you are. ~ French Proverb They say it takes a village to raise a child. What I’ve found is that it takes a village to do just about anything. Growing up, I didn’t know getting through life took a village. I thought everyone I came into contact with was competent, knowledgeable, and self-reliant…that somehow my needing help was a personal deficit. The insecurity I felt was my proof of this. Most unfortunate was that I believed that this deficit must be hidden at all costs. What I have come to learn is that self-sufficiency is a lie. Not just that it’s impossible, but…